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UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
West Lafayette, Indiana


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The Lighted Chalice
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Lafayette, Indiana ~ ~ January 12, 2006

Worship Schedule
Sunday Service at 10:30 a.m.
Childcare Available

 

JANUARY 15

Martin Luther King Sunday 
“Looking Back and Looking Forward:
Our Civil Rights in Review”

Worship Associate: Martha Gipson
Pianist: Richard Maddux

 

 

 

JANUARY 22

“Choosing Purpose”
Speaker: Kathryn Black

Worship Associate: Charles Coley
Pianist: Richard Maddux
Greeter: Twain Woodruff
6th Grade Recognition

“Guest at Your Table” boxes return

 

 

JANUARY 29

“It’s the Process, Maybe”
Speaker: Rev. Richard Venus,
Miami Valley UU Fellowship, Dayton OH

Worship Associate: Beverly Seese
Pianist: Richard Maddux

 

 

 

 

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This issue was prepared by Kaye McSpadden


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New at our church — “Change for Change”(every week!)

The Social Action Committee is excited to introduce a new initiative, “Change for Change.” Each week the loose change that is collected in the Sunday offering will be dedicated to a social justice cause. The Social Action Committee, with the approval of the board, will choose the recipients. This year we will focus on agencies that support our families and children.

      With the success of this initiative, future years will bring other focuses in areas that we as a UU community hold dear in our hearts and that are consistent with UU principles. 

      This initiative has been a success in many congregations.  We have no doubt that with the hearts and generosity in this UU congregation, this initiative will be a success and make changes with our change!

      So, each Sunday, get ready to empty your pockets and dig in your purse when the offering plate comes around.

—Lynn Richardson, Social Action Committee member, Social Action Family and Children Subcommittee, chair

Where is the money going and what else can we do to help?

This year our focus is local agencies who make changes for our children and families. We are currently collecting for Head Start and Early Head Start.   

      Who are these agencies in our community, how can we help and what volunteer opportunities are there? Without question, the first five years of a child’s life have a tremendous impact on his or her overall development as a person. For children from families with limited incomes, the time leading up to their first day of school can leave them void of self-confidence and a will to learn.

      The Lafayette Head Start and Early Head Start Programs give pre-school children the support they need to meet their emotional, social, educational, health and nutritional needs so they can succeed in school and in later life.

      The Lafayette Head Start/Early Head Start Center educates and provides tools for parents so they can succeed at being their child’s most important teacher.

Volunteer opportunities:  Reading to children.  Share your experience to mentor a young parent. Material needs:  Money to purchase Parent Reading Kits so each child can have their own kit.  Currently families share these kits. Also, gently used books.

Contact Number:  449-0487 or  phoulton@cfrc.org

 


UUSC founders receive international recognition

Two of the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee’s founders are being honored posthumously as “Righteous Among the Nations” by Yad Vashem, the Holocaust Martyrs’ and Heroes’  Remembrance Authority in Israel , for their work helping Jews excape Nazi persecution during World War II.

The Rev. Waitstill and Martha Sharp are only the second and third U.S. citizens to receive this international distinction. Martha Sharp is the first woman from the United States to be honored.

        from Volunteer Network Update, December 2005

            Your contributions to the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee will help the UUSC continue the work that was started by the Sharps. 


 

Time to return your “Guest” boxes!

Thank you all for hosting a “Guest at Your Table” this year!  This project supports the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee, a nonprofit human rights organization that puts our faith into action.

      It is time to return your boxes!  Even if you did not take home a box, you can still contribute to this fundraiser.  It is helpful if you convert your coins to a check payable to the UUSC and remember to fill out the form on the box and indicate if you wish to become a member of the UUSC.  As a member, you will be kept up to date on human rights issues through regular mailings, action alerts, and the UUSC newsletter. 

            Those contributing $75 or more will have their contributions matched by the UU Congregation at Shelter Rock in Manhasset , NY .  We will be collecting through the month of January.  Please either put your box in the basket in the back of the sanctuary, or put your donation in Sarah Boulac’s mailbox.  Thank you!


Friendly reminders about TLC for our church building

View from the hall. Many people come into the church during and after regular hours, for services, meetings, and special events.  As a friendly reminder, there are some things to keep in mind when coming into your church building — this shared, welcoming, and sacred space. 

Kitchen. The kitchen is well used — we have no maid service and our cleaning person does not do the dishes, so please respect others who use and work in this space, and clean up after yourself or your designated little ones. 

Secretary’s office.  The Church Office computer in the hallway is for Staff Use, as the sign on it denotes.  Only designated staff should have access to this area, including the computer; please do not twist the lights, move the pictures, play with the chair, or leave food and beverages at this space. This our work area, and to find it left with crumbs, beverage cans, frosting and papers moved is difficult and can interfere with work. 

Closing up. Please be sure all lights are off before you leave. And for general security: make sure that the front and side doors are locked.  After turning the key, try the door knob just to be sure that it’s closed.  If you are here during off hours and see someone lurking about the outside, please call the police; lately there have been cigarette packs and beer cans found directly behind the kitchen door outside; and people have been coming in during work hours to request money.  Thank-you for your consideration and cooperation.

 —The Staff

 


 

Choir rehearsal moves to Wednesdays

Beginning Jan. 11, the church choir will rehearse on Wednesdays from 7:30-9pm in the sanctuary. Hope to see you there! For more information contact Choir Director Denise Gilliland.

 


IRCRC (In. Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice) news

“What’s happening at the statehouse: proposed  legislation on reproductive health and what we  should do about it.” Thursday, Jan. 26, 7-8:30 pm  at the Lafayette YWCA. 

Guest speakers Michael  McKillip, Dir. of Public Policy and Legislative  Affairs, Planned Parenthood of Indiana , and   Lindsey Mintz, Dir. of Government Affairs,   Jewish Community Relations Council

On Nov. 30 Planned Parenthood of Indiana  presented the 2005 Margaret Sanger Award to Kaye McSpadden, president of IRCRC, for  “dedication to the promotion of religious and reproductive freedom.”

 


Following is an excerpt from an essay written by Beverly Seese for a class she is currently taking at Meadville Lombard Theological School .

A UU Christmas Carol

            What an enjoyable service the children helped to present last Sunday.  Even Dickens would have chuckled at several changes that were made in the script to accommodate some of our seven principles.  The room was bulging with members, friends and families on this fourth Sunday of advent, eager to see and hear the young members of our community act out this “fractured fiction tale” and consider what value there is in celebrating the holiday. ...

            This intergenerational service, like many intergenerational interactions, allowed the young ones to take on some adult roles and responsibilities.  At the same time it allowed us adults to suspend our usual analyzing nature and experience some child-like excitement and joy about the season and each other. ...

            Whenever I’ve been asked why I go to church regularly, I always include in my reasons the benefit of having additional adults to help direct and encourage my children. ...  I especially appreciate folks who can fill in the “grandparent void” my children have experienced all but a few years of their life.  This intergenerational aspect of the church is unique in our society where most of our institutions and activities are becoming more age segregated all the time.  Combined generations rarely work together as they used to in past eras, or socialize together.  White suggests that, “In our time the ‘ties that bind’ generations one to another are too few and everywhere tenuous.”

            Fortunately this congregation has maintained many opportunities for intergenerational experiences throughout the year ... At all these times, as well as the first part of every Sunday morning service, the possibility is available for learning from, teaching, helping, playing, singing, or serving with other people who are one, two, or even three generations older or younger.  By doing so we make connections and become a stronger healthier organization, better prepared to reach out from a stable base to help, teach, learn, and serve in the wider community.


the art of nonviolence

 

Honor and celebrate Martin Luther King Day at the first 2006 Religious Arts Festival event, which will include supper, music, performances, open mic, and a sing-along.

Sat., Jan. 14 5:30pm (supper, $5) 6:30 program (free)

Temple Israel , 620 Cumberland Ave, W. Lafayette

Questions? Contact Terrie Kercher  or Sharon McKnight  

 

 


 

 

Highlights from recent church meetings

December congregational meeting

UUC voted to join the Indiana Religious  Coalition for Reproductive Choice (IRCRC) as an organizational associate member.

Approved 2006 budget.

December board meeting

Board members working to get accurate   membership count

Internal audit committee being formed

Goal review on track

Treasurer’s job description approved

 

Complete minutes can be found at https://uufolks.org/groups/board/minutes

—Dagmar Murray, UUC Board Secretary

 

 

Church Mouse Award

This month’s Church Mouse award goes to the Art Fair Committee for all their hard work and dedication in another successful art fair, which is a valuable event to both the church and the community.

 

 


 

More donations of new hymnal supplement, “Singing the Journey,” received

In honor of Sarah Boulac, with gratitude for her outstanding service, dedication and contributions to the R.E. program and the families it serves.

 From Lola Straub, and Roxanna, Gavin, and Nathaniel North

In memory of Dorothy Lounsbury (2 copies)   From Don and Ruth Ann Ferris

Note: Our large print edition, which was donated by Joan and Karl Lohmann, is now available.


 

 

Religious Education Happenings

 

RE Co- Directors Sarah Boulac and Michele Tomarelli

Upcoming Events/Announcements

Snacks and Juice – RE is in need of unsweetened fruit juice and non-perishable, low-sugar snacks for Sunday morning classes.  Please mark your donations “RE” and leave them on the counter in the kitchen.  Thanks!

 

Teacher                                  Jan 15          Jan 22

Preschool Tchr                        C. Frye          C. Frye

Preschool Helper                     K. Reynolds    K. Reynolds 

K-1st Gr. Teacher                     K. Harden       K. Harden

2nd-4th Gr. Teacher                 K. Schroth      K. Schroth



                            


Sunday Morning Forum

The Sunday Morning Forum meets at 9 a.m. in the Red Cross Building across the parking lot from the church. Everyone is welcome! Childcare is provided.         

Among the top stories of the past year were expressions of concern that an uncontrollable flu pandemic might be coming our way and graphic descriptions of Hurricane Katrina and the devastation left behind. As we open the New Year we examine both of these stories in greater detail.

 

January 15 “Influenza: Pandemic Preparedness and Vaccines—the Real Story.” David Sanders, Professor of Biological Sciences. The disastrous 1918 “Spanish flu” epidemic killed 20 million people worldwide. Last year, British scientist set off a wave of alarm by showing that the 1918 virus likely derived from an avian virus. How likely are we to face another world wide flu pandemic and what are we doing to prevent it?

 

January 22 “Should New Orleans be Rebuilt?” George Horwich, Professor Emeritus, Krannert School of Management. Professor Horwich will look at Hurricane Katrina from an economics perspective. In general, how should society prepare and respond to natural disasters? Who should bear the cost and responsibility for prevention and reconstruction? What are the optimal roles of state and local government, the federal government, and the private sector?

                                                                                                    


Minister’s Muse     

 

t was with great sorrow that this congregation honored the life, in memoriam, of Dorothy Lounsbury last week.  It brought many of us together for mourning and for a potluck with her family, which was deeply appreciated by the family.  In fact, her family was singularly embraced and comforted by this congregation. 

      It is impossible for me to name all the people who helped out with the service, with bringing meals to the family, and providing the dinner after the service.  But between that and the new year, I have found myself in mind of odds and ends that I hope that people will turn their attention to.  I am not talking to any group in particular, but to everyone here. 

      Dorothy was, in many ways, well prepared for her death—she knew that she wanted to be cremated and had her papers in order.  And still there were so many details that needed to be attended to.  I was fortunate because I knew her well—had known her for six years and had a good chance to get to know her family as they arrived in town.  At the same time, there is even more I would have liked to know and would like to have on record here at the church.

      I’d like to invite everyone to think ahead to something that might be decades away or just around the corner—because life is unpredictable.  It is not so easy to think about final arrangements—when we know our lives are not really ever final, we leave an indelible imprint.  It is not so easy to think about final arrangements—when we might rather think of ourselves as immortal or in control of destiny. 

      But, really, I have found that considering my own final arrangements has been of profound value to me.  I suppose that I really started during theological school, but then I found that I got more serious after I read the Stephen Levine book, A Year to Live.  The book was a powerful invitation to live more fully in the present, as though this year really mattered.  And, after all, it does. But it was also an invitation to think ahead. 

      I was sitting with the family at Hippensteel Funeral Home and looking at boxes for Dorothy’s ashes when I realized that, perhaps, Roy Barnhart could make a simple box that would suit Dorothy and give her a true embrace from the congregation.  Roy cheerfully made an unfinished box, since that was what Dorothy wanted.  Roy made a lovely box. Hippensteel was happy to credit the cost back to the family and the family felt a profound connection to the congregation through that simple arrangement.

      At church a file can be kept of your preferences for arrangements and there are some of those files here already for a few people.  But it would be really good to take time to refresh your file, make that file for the first time, or just take the time to think about what you might like to do, you know, with yourself.

      In March I will start to offer “A Year to Live” as a monthly conversation group.  We will go through the book and the conversation will continue each month among the members of the group.  But I plan, as part of that process, to offer an evening of reflection on Final Arrangements.  It will be a guided time, with plenty of material to work with and time for private reflection as well as discussion. 

      In the meantime, I invite you to think about memorials that you have felt touched and healed by and begin to think about how you would like to be remembered, what would bring you joy in the present to know that you are giving people in the future, and what questions you might want to raise.

      Dorothy referred to herself as a “river watcher.” She had arranged to be cremated but had not arranged where to be buried, and then her son arrived and found the wonderful Sand Ridge cemetery out just beyond Fort Ouiatenon and found her a place there, overlooking the river she loved.  I will miss Dorothy and I know many others will miss her, but her presence will be felt for a very long time because of the time that was taken by her  and her family to make meaningful arrangements.

I drove out to the cemetery on Friday morning to stand with family to inter her ashes and turned my cd player up full blast to listen to the cast of the musical RENT song “Seasons of love:”

525,600 minutes, 525,000 moments so dear. 525,600 minutes—how do you measure,measure a year? In daylights, in sunsets, in midnights, in cups of coffee. In inches, in miles, in laughter, in strife. In 525,600 minutes—how do you measure a year in the life? How about love?  Measure in love. Seasons of love.  Let this year be a cycle of seasons of love in which every moment counts.

—Hilary

                                                    


 

          

Lighted Chalice
Unitarian Universalist Church
17 S. 7th Street
Lafayette IN 47901-1637
E-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Home page:  http://www.uulafayette.org
Publication: Every other Thursday
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Minister: Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Phone: 742-0460;
minister@uulafayette.org 

Office hours: 

Tuesday 9 a.m.-noon
Thursday Noon-4 p.m.   
Also by appointment
 

Religious Education : Sarah Boulac
Phone: 742-0460 or 414-2432

Office hours: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m Tuesday & Thursday 

Secretary: Karin Bergman
Phone: 742-0460, e-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Office hours: 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday to Friday 

Board Co Chairs: Robin & Dianna Poindexter  Phone: 742-0460 

Editors:

Kaye McSpadden, Phone: 743-3634, kaye7m@aol.com

Nancy Patchen, Phone: 497-1259, nhmp@verizon.net

Lynn Holland, Phone: 583-2703,  holland@nursing.purdue.edu  

Webspinner: Dianna Poindexter,dianna1@wildmail.com  

 

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